You may be eight or nine months pregnant and only now beginning to seriously think about adoption. Perhaps you expected to parent throughout most of your pregnancy. You may have hoped your relationship would become more stable, your financial situation would improve, or relatives would provide the support they promised. As your due date gets…
Choosing adoption can bring a sense of clarity after weeks or months of uncertainty. You may have thought carefully about your circumstances, spoken with an adoption professional, considered prospective adoptive families, and decided that adoption is the path you want to pursue. Then the questions begin. Friends may want to know why you chose adoption….
For prospective adoptive parents, one of the biggest questions at the beginning of the adoption process is often how they will connect with a woman who is considering adoption for her baby. You may have heard people refer to this as “finding a birth mother.” While that phrase is commonly searched online, adoption is not…
If you are in the hospital after giving birth and are beginning to wonder whether adoption may be the right choice for your baby, you may feel as though you waited too long to ask for help. You may not have an adoption plan. You may not know anything about prospective adoptive families. Perhaps you…
Many women spend pregnancy believing they will parent their baby. You may have chosen a name, purchased baby items, made plans with the birth father, talked with relatives about childcare, or prepared a place for your baby to sleep. You may have never seriously considered adoption because you believed you would find a way to…
You may have left the hospital believing you were going to parent your baby. You brought your baby home, began handling feedings and diaper changes, attended appointments, and started settling into a new routine. Then you began wondering whether parenting is something you can realistically continue. If this is happening to you, you may feel…
You may have entered the hospital expecting to parent your baby and started thinking differently after delivery. Perhaps circumstances changed suddenly, the support you were counting on is no longer available, or the reality of parenting has made you reconsider what you believe is best for you and your child. If you decide that you…
If your baby has already been born and you are now thinking about adoption, you may be wondering whether you waited too long to consider it. You may still be in the hospital. You may have already taken your baby home and discovered that your situation is different from what you expected. Perhaps the support…
If your baby has already been born and you are beginning to consider adoption, one of your first questions may be how quickly an adoption plan can be created. The answer may be reassuring. An adoption plan can often begin very quickly after birth. You can contact an adoption professional from the hospital or after…
The hospital experience can be one of the most emotional parts of an adoption plan. Even if you have spent weeks or months thinking about adoption, giving birth can make everything feel more immediate. You may feel confident about your decision and still become emotional when you hold your baby. You may want the prospective…