You may have left the hospital believing you were going to parent your baby. You brought your baby home, began handling feedings and diaper changes, attended appointments, and started settling into a new routine. Then you began wondering whether parenting is something you can realistically continue. If this is happening to you, you may feel…
You may have entered the hospital expecting to parent your baby and started thinking differently after delivery. Perhaps circumstances changed suddenly, the support you were counting on is no longer available, or the reality of parenting has made you reconsider what you believe is best for you and your child. If you decide that you…
If your baby has already been born and you are now thinking about adoption, you may be wondering whether you waited too long to consider it. You may still be in the hospital. You may have already taken your baby home and discovered that your situation is different from what you expected. Perhaps the support…
If your baby has already been born and you are beginning to consider adoption, one of your first questions may be how quickly an adoption plan can be created. The answer may be reassuring. An adoption plan can often begin very quickly after birth. You can contact an adoption professional from the hospital or after…
The hospital experience can be one of the most emotional parts of an adoption plan. Even if you have spent weeks or months thinking about adoption, giving birth can make everything feel more immediate. You may feel confident about your decision and still become emotional when you hold your baby. You may want the prospective…
Not every adoption plan begins months before a baby is born. Some women know early in pregnancy that they want to explore adoption, while others do not begin considering it until they are close to delivery or already at the hospital. If you have recently given birth and are wondering whether adoption is still an…
If your baby has already been born and you are beginning to consider adoption, you may wonder whether you still have a say in who will raise your child. In many adoption situations, birth mothers can still learn about prospective adoptive families and take part in selecting the family they feel is the best fit,…
If you are at the hospital, have already given birth, and are wondering whether adoption is still an option, you are not alone. Some women begin planning an adoption early in pregnancy. Others do not seriously consider adoption until labor begins, after the baby is born, or when they start thinking about what will happen…
Feeling guilty can make an already difficult pregnancy decision much harder. You may be considering adoption because of your current circumstances, your hopes for your child, or your readiness to parent, while the people closest to you are asking you to make a different choice. A parent may tell you that the family will help….
After placement, many birth mothers look forward to receiving photographs, messages, videos, or other updates about their child. These moments can provide reassurance and connection, especially in an open or semi-open adoption. But sometimes an update arrives and brings emotions you were not expecting. A photograph may make you smile and cry at the same…